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Dating
tips that work- which of the three types of women should
you be dating?
by John Alanis
When most "dating gurus" and sex therapists spout their
dating tips, they often complicate the whole process with
unusable theory and psychobabble.
I’m going to bypass that, make it brain-dead simple for
you, and most importantly, reveal a few dating tips you
can apply in the real world. In these dating tips, I'm
going to share with you the little-known concept of the
"three types of women.”
There's a wonderful book you should read called "Winning
Through Intimidation" by Robert Ringer. You can get it
on Amazon for a few bucks (get the original version published
in the 1970's, not
the new "touchy feely" one.) Many people are turned off
by the title, thinking it's about "scaring" people into
giving you what you want. That's not what it's about,
though. It's actually about protecting yourself from intimidation.
It's also a fun read, full of hilarious stories and even
a few cartoons (of turtles wearing sunglasses). But it's
a book each and everyone
looking for dating tips needs to read, because the part
I'm about to share with you absolutely applies to interacting
successfully and effortlessly with sexy women.
In the book, Ringer talks about the three types of people
in the business world- and in my experience he's 100%
correct. Here they are. Type #1- this is the guy who is
out to get all your "chips" and lets you know about it.
This guy is "straightforward" about his intentions, what
some would call honest. Type #2 this is the guy who assures
you he is not out to get your "chips", and in fact, tells
you he wants you to get
everything that is coming to you. Then he attempts to
grab all your "chips" anyways. Type #2's are the most
treacherous type. Type#3: this is the guy who assures
you he is not out to get your chips, and sincerely means
it, but by his bumbling, stumbling or just pure incompetence
he winds up trying to take
them anyways (even though he doesn't mean to). How do
the “three types” translate into a usable dating tip?
And, how does all of this relate to success with attracting
sexy women? Well, it's been my experience that women fall
into, roughly, these three types as well. Type #1: she's
straightforward with you about her intentions… whether
she's into "fun friends," or looking for a husband, she
is forthright with you up front. She knows herself and
what makes her happy.
Type #2: this is the woman who appears to be straightforward
with you about what she wants… but for whatever reason,
she's out to get your money, deliberately break your heart,
or she's just pissed at all men -what a female friend
of mine called a "cruel woman." Like the above type #2,
the operative word here is "treacherous." Type #3: this
is the woman who truly believes herself when she tells
you what she's looking for, but for whatever reason, bad
things seem to happen around her… she "self sabotages"
whenever things are going good, and winds up wreaking
great emotional havoc on the men in her lives, even though
she doesn't mean to. The result is still the same as dealing
with a Type #2, though, and that’s why it’s vitally important
you pay close attention to the above dating tips.
Obviously you want to spend your time with the Type #1's
(in business and with women) and avoid the Type #2's.
If you pay attention and listen for her, what I call,
map/model of the world, you can usually identify the Type
#2's. You'll hear things like "my last boyfriend was cheap,
he wouldn't take me out or buy me things." Or, things
like, "I drove by his house
and a strange car was in the driveway… he was cheating
on me." Here is a dating tip that will save you time,
money, and heartache: when you hear things like this,
run away FAST.
Type #3's can be more difficult to identify. It usually
takes a lot longer, and you have to pay careful attention.
Listen for things like, "It was going along so good, and
I just don't know what happened." Type #3's are controlled
by their "inner world," not in control of it. That's why
I usually recommend starting
any relationship as just "fun friends" so you can begin
to get a clear picture of her map/model of the world and
pinpoint her Type. A lot of what appear to be Type #1's
in the beginning actually identify themselves as Type
#3's later on down the line. You can never stop paying
attention, or you will get in
trouble. Dating tips like this one can be applied, and
used day in and day out. Start paying attention to this,
and watch just how true this is. It's the difference between
happiness and misery!
About the author:
John Alanis, "The King of Let 'em Come to You", is author
of the
"Women Approach You" system at http://www.womenapproachyou.com.
His blog is at http://www.johnalanis.com
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